Wednesday, December 3, 2025

Matthew: Five Years!

Done is better than perfect. Is this the five year post I wanted to put up for Matthew? No. I still want to tweak it/improve it/better capture Matthew at this age. But is it time for this post to be done sitting in my draft folder? One hundred percent. Especially since all of these pictures are circa 2024 and I even confused myself reading through the information I had typed since it dates back almost two years, not this past year. And since the pictures/information are only getting more irrelevant (especially since he's already almost six!), on the interwebs they go. Finally.

Age: 5

Height: 3 ft 6 in

Weight: 38lb, 6.5oz

What is your favorite color? Blue

What is your favorite animal? Cheetah or Tiger

What is your favorite book? My Lucky Day

What is your favorite song? Go Tell it on the Mountain

What is your favorite sport? Soccer and Football

What is your favorite thing to do with Mom? Color

What is your favorite thing to do with Dad? Get tickled

What is your favorite thing to do outside? Soccer

Where is your favorite place to go? Lucy's gym

Lucy's gym has rings, and once he got the hang of them there was no looking back

What is your favorite fruit? Apple

What is your favorite vegetable? Carrot and Sweet Potato

What is your favorite cereal? Marshmallow Treasures

What is your favorite treat? Smarties

What is your favorite meal? Spaghetti and Italian Spaghetti

What makes you happy? Doing my marble track and stickers

What makes you sad? When someone hits me

Who are your best friends? Lucy and Rose and all the Griggs family

What do you want to be when you grow up? Artist



What was your favorite part of last year? Playing games on the couch downstairs

What is one thing you want to do this year? Play with my remote control car


At four, the heights of all the boys were within an inch of one another. By five, Connor had started to shoot up and break away from the pack. As of right now, it appears Matthew is going to follow Connor's track and establish himself as one of the "taller" brothers; he is dead even with Connor at five, which is an inch and a half taller than William or Garrett were. 

In another instance of William and Garrett vs Connor and Matthew, both of the older two were full-on reading by five, but Connor--and now Matthew--were not. Matthew is slowly starting to show interest in letters and sounds and figuring out how they go together (and he can write his name and the majority of the alphabet pretty easily), and he can recognize where the words are on a page, but that's about it for him. I have noticed that he still has a tendency to go right to left when we are talking about beginning sounds in words (or when he is reading numbers: 14 becomes 41), so that's definitely something we'll be keeping an eye on as he starts kindergarten. However, also like Connor at five, his math skills are unreal. He can do +1 and -1 of just about any number (probably up to thirty or so), and he can do sums/differences of four or more up to about 20. He is really good at dividing (although with him we just talk about it as "splitting things equally"), and can often figure it out in his head how many muffins each of them should get if we have 12 to split. Even when we play Chutes and Ladders I've noticed that he doesn't always "count" his spaces; he'll just pick up his piece and move it to the next spot (with probably about ninety percent accuracy). 

He continues to play independently really well, and has (finally!) started to get into puzzles (and after like a week of doing the 24 piece wooden puzzles he decided to jump straight to the 100 piece puzzles, so rationally I know it's time to get rid of our "baby" puzzles, but I just can't bring myself to pull the trigger on that yet!). He'll still take naps during the week pretty consistently (mostly because I'm not ready to lose my alone time in the afternoon!), but usually skips them on the weekend and is just fine. Darrell keeps reminding me that we need to get him used to not taking naps before kindergarten, but that's what summer break is for, right? 

Speaking of summer, we tried multiple times over the summer to get him to practice riding his pedal bike (as opposed to his Strider bike that doesn't have pedals). He'd either flat out refuse to pull it out, or get on it, pedal it once or twice, and declare it "too hard". Then randomly in the beginning of September he asked to get out his pedal bike, and later that evening he was zipping up and down the block by himself. This is his personality in a nutshell: when he's in the mood to do something there is no stopping him (literally--when he is in a mood to play games, you'd better carve out your entire morning for endless rounds of UNO, Chutes and Ladders, Guess Who, etc), but there is absolutely zero forcing him to do something he doesn't want to do. 





A few other random Matthew memories: he loves (LOVES) hide and seek and fully grasps the whole being quiet and hiding thing. Sometimes to a fault because we don't always realize he's playing and there have definitely been a few moments of panic when he hasn't answered us when we've called for him. He calls his big toe his "thumb toe", which I love, and after ten weeks in the spring of doing daycare for my niece (who is Matthew's age), he FINALLY started picking up on when to use he vs she. Poor Lucy didn't care for being referred to as a "he" or "him" but she tolerated it well.

First time roller skating!

Mom's little hiking buddy



See rocks, will climb. Always



Not gonna lie, I'm a little jealous that I never thought to create a canopy/fort on the bottom bunk when my sister and I shared a bunk bed




First summer as a Little Vikes camper at Leif Ericson Day Camp!


He loves Lucy's gym so much it was his request for his birthday outing this year!


Wednesday, February 12, 2025

Day in the Life: January 21st

6:30 Up and exercised!

7:00 Breakfast time

8:00 Helping out in the school library while they work on hiring a new educational assistant position

9:00 This kid has been obsessed with games lately

10:00 Art class time!

11:00 Heading home

12:00 Working on a sticker book he got for his birthday

1:00 Enjoying the sun and my current read

2:00 But since conferences are in a couple of weeks I have to be a little productive during naptime!

3:00 Snack time

4:00 Constantly battling to keep up with the mess in the kitchen

5:00 Picking up William from his after school STEM club

6:00 Skyping with Darrell's parents so Matthew can open his birthday present from them

7:00 More snacking (and a mess of new birthday presents!)

8:00 Off to bed

9:00 Catching up on emails (feels like as much of a losing battle as trying to keep up with the dishes!)

10:00 Enjoying a little bit more of my book before bed

Goodnight!


Day in the Life: December 21st

The calendar may say "Saturday" but our calendar says no rest for the weary four days before Christmas!

7:00 It's been a cookie factory around these parts the past few days

8:00 Showering up before tackling the day

9:00 Cookies lined up and ready to go to assemble holiday treat boxes for the shut-ins in our congregation

10:00 50 treat boxes times 1.5 dozen treats in each equals a long couple of weeks of preparation (but so much fun and such a blessing to be able to help spread holiday cheer!)

11:00 Prepping for some holiday shopping this afternoon--and make sure we avoid any Santa visits at the stores we are going to because those always invite chaos

12:00 Consolidating the leftover treats (which ended up being a lovely way to stock our fridge for the holiday season!)

1:00 Toy store number one. Brought the boys with under the guise that they need to pick cousin gifts for the exchange next weekend, but really, we needed a few more gift ideas for some of them

2:00 And toy store number two (love supporting our local toy stores!)

3:00 Enjoying some Veggie Tale holiday fun

4:00 Early dinner prepped...

5:00 And early dinner eaten...

6:00 (and 7:00) So we can get to a local production of The Nutcracker!

8:00 Two of my cousin's boys were in the show and it was So.Much.Fun. The boys loved it

9:00 Bedtime at last for the final boy

10:00 Putting the finishing touches on our 2025 calendar

11:00 Perusing my parent's 2025 calendar that just came in the mail (designing their calendar--and ours!--is definitely a labor of love, but I so enjoy the final product)

Ugh. Really need to work on improving this bedtime in the new year....