Obligatory Florida beach shot |
Darrell always has such a great eye for taking photos... Love this shot of the tree and dock! |
One of the most important elements of having an enjoyable family vacation is make sure there is at least one activity that all parties are included in and like to do.
I swear we are actually playing cards, not just drinking |
Couples tennis anyone? |
This is really a location-specific tip, but if you are vacationing somewhere that offers deep-sea fishing tours, you should definitely consider doing one. As long as no one in your family has a strong aversion to fish or bad seasickness, these trips are a blast. Most charters have a variety of trips available as well, so you will be able to select one that best fits your interests. Since we weren't all gung-ho about doing an overnight adventure (although you do have the opportunity to catch some wicked cool fish), we went out on one of their standard day trips where they pretty much guarantee everyone will catch something. And trust me, they don't lie.
This wasn't even all of the fish we caught! |
There was one definite area of friction on the trip, however. As I've mentioned, my family has the vacation mindset of "everyone or no one" when it comes to activities. Serious deliberation (usually too much) is put into every decision because we have to all agree on the same thing so that no one feels slighted or left out. There is no splitting up or having people branch off on their own. And when we would travel just the five of us, this usually wasn't an issue. But I soon discovered that when I had my significant other along, I was more inclined to want some down time that wasn't a "full-family" activity. So when Darrell and I decided we wanted to go for a walk on the beach one evening while the rest of the family was sitting down to play cards, we got some pretty displeased looks from other family members (but it paid off in some pretty awesome photos!).
I've since talked with my mom and sister (the two who really cared), and we've come to the understanding that sometimes when we travel, especially with our significant others, the couples might want to spend some time alone because after all, this is a vacation for them as well. So I would highly recommend that if you preparing for that monumental first family vacation with a significant other, make sure you and your family are on the same page with expectations for how and with whom people will spend their time.
If this really doesn't sound like the vacation style of your family and really isn't helpful at all, stay tuned later this week as I recap vacations with Darrell's family--which are about as polar opposite as you can be compared to my family's vacations!
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